How to join the gym that’s right for you

How to find a gym that's right for you

I’m on a fit and strong journey to find my strongest self. Although I’ve had a number of missteps, one of the worst so far has been wasting a year of my life because I joined the wrong gym. I really wanted to share my experience and write a post about how to find a gym that’s right for you because it’s so important and makes such a difference to getting results.

I moved to a new city (hello Sydney!) at the end of 2016 and although I knew that I wanted to join a gym straight away I took my time to familiarise myself with my surroundings. When I was ready I had already researched the gyms that were close to home and work and I knew roughly what they provided.

One Saturday morning I toured the nearby gyms, visiting each location and receiving a tour of the facilities and equipment. The tours usually included a breakdown of rates and what you get for your money at each gym. I decided to do this around New Years Eve also so most of the gyms had some kind of special rate to lock you in for a 12 month contract.

I chose the gym I liked and I retuned after work on Monday to sign up for my membership. I got 7 days free and then I was locked in for 12 months.

The gym was a great facility with up to date equipment, plenty of space and it was only a short drive from my home. There were classes, personal trainers and everything that I needed to be successful.

It wasn’t long before I realised the gym was great on the surface but it just wasn’t for me. This resulted in me showing up sporadically for a year and walking on the treadmill for the best part of an hour then towards the end of the year I stopped going altogether.

I found that although the gym seemed like it would be great for me – the attitude of the staff and personal trainers wasn’t supportive, the weight room was intimidating for women and they didn’t do anything to alleviate that. Classes, even though they were on a great timetable never had availability or any booking system so although I wanted to try Spin and Barre, I could never get a spot because the people that went already had an ongoing book out of the spaces. Honestly, I probably could have complained about the situation but at this point I was disheartened and disengaged.

Coming from someone who has made this mistake, and really this was just the most recent iteration of this particular error here are my suggestions in finding the right gym for you:

Understand what you want in a gym

The first step in finding a gym that’s right for you is understanding how you will use it and what you want to get out of it. Are you looking for a gym that you can prioritise weight-training, cardio or yoga? Or are you looking for a gym that you can balance a number of different disciplines? The gym you’re looking for might not be traditional, you might flourish at a Crossfit gym or F45 instead.

The importance of understanding this early in the process is key in finding success when you do eventually make a commitment. If you’re in the very early stages of your fitness journey you may not know how you want to work out or what kind of work outs will be best for you, each gym will provide a trial generally 7 days in length but sometimes a bit longer, if you’re unsure at any point undertake trials at multiple gyms although this won’t show you how the gym will be in the long term, you’ll get an idea of how the gym operates and what the workouts and equipment is like.

Related: The 2018 Guide to working out with YouTube

Take a tour of potential gyms

Touring potential locations is an important step in the process, especially if you are able to do this at the time you would go and work out during your normal routine. A tour provides you with the opportunity to gauge how busy the gym is at the time and take a look at the equipment, extra facilities and changing facilities.

The gym staff should take you through the packages available and talk to you about a free trial so you have the opportunity to try first before making a more substantial commitment.

During these tours it’s important to ask a lot of questions like availability of Personal Trainers, what facilities are included in your membership, safety measures for when the gym is unmanned if there is 24 hour access and anything you might want to know about the locker and shower facilities.

Consider all the variables

Although it seems obvious but before you land on a gym considering all of the variables will help ensure you make the right decision. One of the reasons I went with my failed decision was purely on cost – I compared it to a far superior gym and because it was slightly cheaper I decided to go there instead. Although cost is a factor when deciding, to set yourself up for success this shouldn’t be the only factor you consider.

Think about how accessible the location is; do you feel comfortable with car parking and the location at night and is it easy to get to early in the morning?

What’s the general vibe of the staff that you’ve noticed?

What’s your deal breaker?

Ironically the gym that I’m at now where I’m finding all of my results was one of the locations I had initially considered, actually it was the one that I decided not to pay for because the cost was a little more than the brand I chose instead.

Now, I wish I had made the decision to just spend a little more money in the first place – I wouldn’t have wasted an entire year of my life trying to make something work that was never really right for me.I know now that my deal breaker was a number of things but mostly the support I was getting back from the brand I chose wasn’t enough for the commitment I made in sweat, money and time.

Now, I’m working with a Personal Trainer, I go to some fantastic classes, I train in the weight room and I’m more inclined to put more in to the gym myself because I get so much more out of it.

So before you decide: What’s your deal breaker?

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I’m blogging here now

I love blogging. I’ve been a blogger for a long time in various different blogs. I’m blogging here now. I’d love to teach you how to blog!

Starting a new blog

Starting a new blog is like buying a new pair of shoes. Running shoes, not the Manolo Blahnik’s you’ve had your eye on for months and have saved every last cent for. No my friend, starting a new blog is more like going to the Nike store and picking out the shoes that you know will keep you comfortable for many miles on the road. A blog is great when it’s shiny and new but it needs work and there’s always room for improvement. As you evolve your blog does too – that’s what I love about blogging.

What I’ll be blogging about

My life has changed a lot since my older blogs. I used to blog secretly – my friends and family knew very little of my blogging and I used it as an outlet to discuss things happening in my life.

Life is so different now – I’ve changed my lifestyle and incorporated a lot of fitness and have some great goals I’m working toward. It’s very much a journey and I’m looking forward to sharing that on my blog.

I now live in Sydney, Australia which is a city begging to be explored. I love Sunday afternoon coastal walks and all of the great festivals and attractions that are around the city. It’s worth the flip side of expensive rents and long commutes.

I also love to travel. We go to Walt Disney World; a lot. I’m a huge Disney fan but I also love travelling in general. This year we’re going to New York and Las Vegas as well – I’m so excited! We’re also planning a trip back to Europe in 2019.

How can you start a blog?

I feel like if I’m blogging just for me – it’s a lifestyle blog but not much more than a diary and no one wants to read about my choice of Lululemon tights to pass their time – let’s be honest. One of my goals for this blog is to include something that helps others in every single post. As I’m now a bit of a veteran in setting up a blog and getting blogging I wanted to share how you can do this (it’s so easy!).

  1. Choose a name for your blog. This is important as you’ll need to set everything up so it reflects your blog name. From social media accounts, email and the web address where people can find you.
  2. Once you have a name you’ll need to decide where you’re going to host your blog.There are two options here, you can use a free website to host your blog like Blogspot or . These websites will host you on their platform and you can set up a blog for free. They have a number of great templates to choose from so you can customise the look and feel of your blog a little.
  3. If you want something more than what the free blog has to offer I recommend setting your blog up as self-hosted from the beginning. Self-hosted simply means that you own your domain name (www. address) and have purchased hosting or where your blog lives that is connected to your chosen domain name. I recommend this because as your blog grows you will control your own platform and have maximum flexibility. You’ll also be able to install which is powerful blog software that will give you ample flexibility.There are many places to purchase self hosted blogs and domain names. I recommend you look around and decide what works best for you, some sites will have specials on hosting and many will even give you a free domain name. Some of the most popular are Go Daddy, Bluehost and Squarespace. I personally use Go Daddy and purchased their wordpress hosting, they installed the software for me and within a matter of minutes I was ready to start setting things up.
  4. Now you’ll get to choose your theme which is basically the look and feel of your blog. I have purchased my themes in the past. I would recommend having a look at ETSY to find a theme that suits you this could be a reflection of your personality or simply how you want your blog to feel. Ensure you check your blog software and buy the correct template for whatever you choose to use. I use WordPress self-hosted on my domain name with the theme Irony by Hipster Themes.
  5. Finally, you’ll need to decide what plugins you want to use on your blog; these are little programs which help you with the look and feel. I suggest googling what is recommended for this as I could write about it but it would be a whole other post worth of content.
  6. When you’re happy with how you’ve set your blog up, which takes longer than expected if you want to play around a bit. You’re ready to blog!The only thing you really have to be set on is your blog name so you can set everything up how you want it from the beginning. Everything else can be changed later on.

Happy Blogging!

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